Communication manners in islam

In the universe, only humans have the ability to speak. With the help of rhetoric, people can easily express the revolving imagination inside the mind. The best use of language can win someone's heart in a moment. Again, this language can be used to make the heart of others tremble and bleed. Gossip, and blasphemy are not only anti-religious; It is also reprehensible in the eyes of any civilization, ideal and elegant person. One of the characteristics of believers is that they refrain from talking nonsense. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Surely the successful are the believers who are humble in their prayers, and refrain from idle talk or gossiping.” (Surah Al-Muminun, verses 1-3). Prophet (PBUH) said that Islam's beauty shows up in one's life By giving up his unreasonable words and deeds. '

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Good words improve human dignity. The level of one's personality is also determined by his words. Sometimes this brings a lot of danger. That is why Islam has spoken of restraint. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And He has a watchman (invisible) to guard what he utters.” (Surat al-Qaf: 18).

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Humans are the only living creatures that can talk. So they have to talk. But even in this case, you have to speak politely, with humility. When Moses and Aaron (pbuh) were sent to the apostate Pharaoh, this special instruction was given, ‘You shall speak to him in gentle language. Perhaps he will take heed or be afraid. '(Surat at-Tawba: 44).

Sometimes we have to face arguments and conflicts in the course of life. In that case also the limit of decency cannot be exceeded. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And argue with the People with the knowledge of the Book in a good manner.” (Surat al-Ankabut: 46)

It is a heinous crime in Islam to make fun of someone, to make fun of them, to make ugly gestures towards someone and to insult someone with names. Allah says, ‘Do not blame one another and do not call one another by evil names; It is reprehensible to call people names after being a believer. '(Surah Hujurat, verse: 11).

The answer to the question of what should be the ideal way of life of a true believer in the overall range and arena of life can be found in the hadith of the Prophet (peace be upon him). Moderation in speech is one of the essential qualities of every believer. Regarding the benefits of being moderate, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Whoever expects overall security, he must remain silent.” ? Hazrat Mu'aj Ibn Jabal (RA) then asked, "Will we be questioned for our words?". The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) replied,' O unfortunate Ibn al-Jabal! I have to be surprised at your words, because (many) people will be thrown into hell because of their tongues. '(Tirmidhi: Ha. 2717).

There is a very important discussion in the hadith about speaking cautiously.

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, ‘Whoever can assure me of the proper use of his tongue and his reproductive organs, I can assure him of Paradise.’ (Bukhari)

Narrated by Abu Huraira: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, ‘It is enough for a person to be a liar to say what he hears (without verifying the truth).’ (Muslim Sharif)

How did the Prophet (peace be upon him) speak? It has been narrated in the hadith, ‘Rasulullah (peace be upon him) did not speak incessantly.’ (Bukhari) and Tirmidhi narrated, ‘The Prophet (peace be upon him) used to speak clearly. So those who were sitting next to him could remember and save it. '(Tirmidhi: Ha. 3639)

One should never exceed the limits of decency when speaking. Blasphemy, arrogance, and the use of harsh language are not only reprehensible but also a heinous crime. Hazrat Lokman (AS) gave a lot of advice to his son. Allah has mentioned some of his advice in the Holy Qur'an. At one point he said, ‘You will restrain your feet and keep your voice low. Surely the donkey's voice is the most unpleasant of the voices. '(Surah Lokman, verse 19)